Sunday, March 29, 2009

girl vs boy???? who win?

well which one will win especially in a relationship???
well using the general polls it says 67% girls win..why???
is it simply because girls like to make a fuss of all things till the boy give up?? hahah no of course not.. boys dont give up easily
boys have pride so as girls.. we just need to see which one have more pride and which one wanna state their points to archive a mutual agreement... who's point is agreeable is considered to win.. lol
hmm that sounds simple.. but when u come in to a real confrontation it is different..
most of the time girls can be a little cocky.. they tend to change topic or blame someone..
they should change on that.. it is not fair .. when we fight we fight fair.
sometimes there things people do right and wrong.. please to all!!!!
when u are fighting please dont only point the wrong doing... do point the right thing also..
because when u say the right thing the situation is controlled...
and no blaming..
well for boys normally they will not admit when they did something wrong..
they rather bury it down or change topic... to all boys then please admit when u do something wrong..
It is all about fairness ... never try to blame the other party for what u have done wrong..
and there is A REASON for every thing or action taken by people...
please dont tell me that your bf or gf will wanna do something to hurt u??
if he or her wanna hurt u there is no need a relationship...
so please everyone listen up and try to forgive and forget...
it dosent matter who wins!!!! the best is both wins.. if u lose u would likely be happy right??
so talk and listen plus discuss to avoid problems...
and one more if u are a good person... u wanna let yr love one win all the time... i tell u it is not good.. trust me!!!
she or he will be pampered if u always let them win...
and when some one is down do cheer he or her up...
a small cheer up will do a lot...it show that u are concern...
DO NOT EVER ASK THE PERSON THAT IS DOWN TO CHEER U UP INSTEAD!!!!
(this always happen if that someone is pampered and never want to lose)
well always people say "what is it about winning or losing???"
trust me no body wanna lose i tell u...if u wanna lose u wont even have the fight!!!

2 comments:

Lilfootstepz~J said...
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Lilfootstepz~J said...

I didn't know the fury you had went way deeper than I thought.. Now that you wrote your heart out, I'm sure its making you feel better...

Then again, no one is perfect yah. Everyone has their imperfections. I cannot change you from having your perceptions, but when the water is half filled, its either half full or half empty. Should it be for the better or worse, it all depends on how u choose to see it. Coz like you said, there's no point crying over spilt milk.

Take care now, and have a nice day ahead...