Saturday, September 6, 2008

How to ask or accept a girl to be yr gf???

well this is totally for the boys...
girls pls scroll down or press the x button...
haha...
so u wannna ask her to be ya gf...here is some tips...
1. Make sure u read my blog!!!!
2. Ask yrself "are u ready???"
3. if yes, then ask her out and MAKE sure u are alone!!! dont bring a friend or former gf or parents... that will give her the excuse to say "haiya have ppl around la"...oh ya and make sure she is alone too... for me if i wanna ask and have ppl around i ask them to get lost!!!...and DONT wait for the right time... no such thing...just ask out of surprise ....eg. hey is the food nice? i hope we can come here more often together...and she say yupe...then pop out the question...
4. Do something for her... either comfort, or safety.... like bring her to a restaurant that she like..but dont ask ya...figure out yrself...(well most of the time if a girl likes u she will feel comfortable if u are comfortable)...so actually it is for ya comfortableness....hahaha
5.make sure it is in the night...although afternoon also can but when night u all cant spend time much.... u must let her think what u say....dont ask her and hang out with her whole day... she might change her mind...cause they get super attentive after u ask...she will find every reason to cheat herself to delay the confirmation... so say it when it is goodbye time... where she can remember only yr good things..haha..she cant find any bad reason to reject u..so that she will think the whole night...hahah..oh ya and dont wear yr best yet ...
6.dont message her after u ask her... talk to her face to face...cause message can bring u all back to the 'friend' feeling..
7.if she answer u on the spot that is bullshit.... no way... or play play with u only.....so the next day approach her with a good look... eg . a dinner of birthday party...
not school or college time.... ask her again and she will replay u with her answer...if she say wait that means NO!!!!dun cheat yr self saying that she needs more time...haha
8. if she say YES....!!! then smile and give her a hug... for extra (a kiss on the forehead).. then act that u all like couple but dint tell anyone yet...she is still not able to get use to her surrounding with a boyfriend...Dont ever shout or do something like u won olympic...she can change her mind quickly...
9. Try more physical contact from now onwards...such as hold her hand ...hugs...
10.Have fun and be with her to make her happy not u....hahha no la.. but yr job now is to make her life happy ... and if u are not happy with anything dont tell her yet.... wait till everything settledown 1st then only u can tell her...
hahah tats all for now... will update if have more

WARNING!!!
-Do not shout to everyone when u ask her...
-rehearsal dosent work..sure will go wrong
-be clean and tidy

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