point of relationship

we all have a purpose to live
even robots have tasks that they need to complete if not why are they are created for?
hmm move on to relationship
relationship is when 2 ppl are close together and have feeling to each other.
it must come in a complete set in order to get a strong relationship
there must have sad moments and happy moments
happy moments are most of the time but the dangerous one is the sad moment..
it is very normal when the sad moments come and all the good moments will dissapeer...
no one is to be blame because we are all human...
we all want happy moment and never sad moments
but however the world is design to have its up's and down's so as relationship..
sad moments can really hurt someone and it is hard to recover it ...
but every problem must have it's cause and effect...
couple's must learn how to coupe with the moments and thus will make their bond stronger...
but too much of everything is not a good sign...
all must be in balance...
feeling is very important in relationship and couples must take care of each other feelings
one party might not say it out because they scared it might hurt the other party..
while the opposite is when we constantly say it out it might annoy someone..so the best to do is think before u act and speak...
finally, it is really hurtful when couples break up....
especially when it is sudden.. it could effect yr life for some time...
try to spare if possible cause after a big disappointment , bonds might get closer and stronger...
but when things go the other way
never discriminate anyone although they have done wrong's...
maintain a friendship if possible cause there is no need to quarrel over split milk

a day in kerling (925m above sea lvl)

hah
another trip to nature
this time is river...
haha
well it was on saturday..
we started out journey around 2.30pm
on the way we passed batu caves and follow the old and trunk road..
then half way.. my friend who organised this trip, his car broke down...
so we have to transfer all of his things to a storm which is luckly big enough to fit...
so we cont our journey...
well this is my friend that drive the storm...
well on the way up the hill...
the road was bumpy and rough...
hahah kl ppl if u go pls bring along a plastic bag...
hehhe cause u might trow up...
we cross 2 river... the truck i am sitting had no problem because the car is modified ...
but the behind one's have a little problem... hahah
there is also a video.. the car was stuck ...mud covered the whole tyre .... luckly the driver is experience so they got out...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v7G3PikyF8Y

when we reached there is about 7 pm..
so we started to set up our tent and mat before it is dark..w
we did it in time... after the tent
it is the food...
and I am the COOK...
hahah
i cook for all along with two girls...
one from china and another from phil....
hehe ...


haha
well then we have our dinner...
and we sat there and chat untill 2 am...
haha
we drank chinese beer with 62% alkohol..
what the !!! i drink two small cups and i am drunk...
haih so sap pai...
hahha...
then when it is time to sleep....
i also sleep but without sleeping bag...
so when it is around 4 am ...
the temp is around 11 degree..
damm cold till i wore 3 shirts and a long track suit also can shiver...
so i cant sleep and took a pic or them sleeping...
they all have comforter and sleeping bag but i dont have... so i shiver till morning..haih... hehe
when it is morning my friend cook maggi and we all eat together...
after that we decided to go for a swim...
the water was freezing... haha

and we went for fishing also but was not sucessful at all.... ha ha
then we decided to go in the water..
it took me half an hour to get used to the water temp before i can completely go in... haha



hehe was cold man....
after that it was lunch time again... hahah
after eating all was resting and relax...before going back...

by the time we were packing our things to go back.. my phone battery runs out..
so no pic from here...
then it was 3 pm we leave and journey through the jungle again...but this time we stopped at the hot spring and have a bath... hahah... this was damm hot,,,,... hahha
after that we start our journey home .... i reached home about 6.30 pm.... was very tired because didnt sleep properly last night...
heheh

5 issues when having a gf

haha..
basically there is not much but i did some research and have some idea....
so,
1.time management- u need to spend time with her... and trust me u will be bugged the whole day if u dont replay...haha so just manage yr time properly and u will do fine
2.$$$-money is also another problem... but if u spend wisely like less cyber and games... u should do fine....
3.always keep yr head low...haha girls never really like bosty boys... so keep yr head low man!!!
4.sacrifices- hmmm i bet many boys hate this..well sometimes u cant tell all things to yr gf although there must be no secrets between both of u...but sometimes keeping problems to yrself is a better choice...u will understand it very soon...haha
5.keeping her feel good ,comfy ,all the time...well dosent seems to be a big issue but still if u neglect it things can be bad...haha
now blurr ady... cant think
haha so will update if have more

5 good things having gf

1.U have a girlfriend!!! haha
2.someone is caring for u all the time....(except those who play play la)
3.u feel more confident about yrself when u are alone...cause last time i feel like no one ever like me....
4.u can experience the meaning of loving and caring someone u love.
5.u r training yrself to be responsible for yrself and yr lover.

ha ha

Ha ha 1st time posting with I phone...ha ha
hey all there is a new blogger...
PLs visit lilfootsteps.blogspot.com...
haih...pets stuffs...ha ha..
well can see that she still havent adept things properly yet...
hmmm...well there is always a guy waiting for her to adept...

How to ask or accept a girl to be yr gf???

well this is totally for the boys...
girls pls scroll down or press the x button...
haha...
so u wannna ask her to be ya gf...here is some tips...
1. Make sure u read my blog!!!!
2. Ask yrself "are u ready???"
3. if yes, then ask her out and MAKE sure u are alone!!! dont bring a friend or former gf or parents... that will give her the excuse to say "haiya have ppl around la"...oh ya and make sure she is alone too... for me if i wanna ask and have ppl around i ask them to get lost!!!...and DONT wait for the right time... no such thing...just ask out of surprise ....eg. hey is the food nice? i hope we can come here more often together...and she say yupe...then pop out the question...
4. Do something for her... either comfort, or safety.... like bring her to a restaurant that she like..but dont ask ya...figure out yrself...(well most of the time if a girl likes u she will feel comfortable if u are comfortable)...so actually it is for ya comfortableness....hahaha
5.make sure it is in the night...although afternoon also can but when night u all cant spend time much.... u must let her think what u say....dont ask her and hang out with her whole day... she might change her mind...cause they get super attentive after u ask...she will find every reason to cheat herself to delay the confirmation... so say it when it is goodbye time... where she can remember only yr good things..haha..she cant find any bad reason to reject u..so that she will think the whole night...hahah..oh ya and dont wear yr best yet ...
6.dont message her after u ask her... talk to her face to face...cause message can bring u all back to the 'friend' feeling..
7.if she answer u on the spot that is bullshit.... no way... or play play with u only.....so the next day approach her with a good look... eg . a dinner of birthday party...
not school or college time.... ask her again and she will replay u with her answer...if she say wait that means NO!!!!dun cheat yr self saying that she needs more time...haha
8. if she say YES....!!! then smile and give her a hug... for extra (a kiss on the forehead).. then act that u all like couple but dint tell anyone yet...she is still not able to get use to her surrounding with a boyfriend...Dont ever shout or do something like u won olympic...she can change her mind quickly...
9. Try more physical contact from now onwards...such as hold her hand ...hugs...
10.Have fun and be with her to make her happy not u....hahha no la.. but yr job now is to make her life happy ... and if u are not happy with anything dont tell her yet.... wait till everything settledown 1st then only u can tell her...
hahah tats all for now... will update if have more

WARNING!!!
-Do not shout to everyone when u ask her...
-rehearsal dosent work..sure will go wrong
-be clean and tidy

Gf??!?!?!?!? are u ready???

hahaha
back in gf action...
well gf...hmmm,, been thinking...why the hell i gives tips when i dont have gf yet...
haha nvm but still i find it quite useful...
the question is are u sure u are ready to put someone in yr life time table...
if say put in heart no problem la... easy... cause no one in yr heart ma...unless u have many gf..
strict remainder !!! : never let the girl u like to view this blog....cause if u use the tips she will know...
like me so charm...but there is still some that i kept it...haha
well things u need to consider to have a gf:
1. $$$
2.TIME
3.$$$
4.$$$
5.freedom
6.$$$
7.$$$
8.future
9.$$$
10.$$$
hahha so u sure u want a gf????
no la.. money is not the main problem la...
it is yr lifestyle that might have to change...
cause it is really hard to have a gf and doing the things u usually so when u dont have...
it can be good and bad...
but for me more to good la..
cause if i dont hang out with her i will be in my room dating with my comp...haha
well thats all for now...cant think more cause of the stupid exam la...
haha

BIB !!!!

back in blogging....
sorry ya long time no blog ady...
more of lazy than have other things to do...
hahaha
gat a few things happen these 2 months...
crazy months in my life ...
hahha
now having exam period but still after the 1st test like over mood ady
cannot must study back (after blog)
hahha
well have u all ever heard of cheer leading?????
i think so...
but have u ever experience it???
ever learn how to do it????those silly jumps and moves...
haha
well this idiot blogger have...dont believe it??
haha.. cant imagine a big buffalo can do cheer le.....
nvm must show it to u all la
but dun laugh so much la...

well there is video .

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F3BWA-sAEdw
but u cant see me clearly in this video la
hahah...
and u know what my team got champion for that competition in my college...
hahah cant believe it ... all of us like blurr on the 1st day but on the competition day..
all of us like professional cheerleaders...except for me ..haha
some of them sucks in practice but when competition time ....they beats the odd's..
haih such an enjoyable moment and crazy period in my life...
untill now i still think why i joined this damm thing...
there are more pictures but for my eyes only...
hahaha

sorry la long time no blog ady....

hi long time no meet

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i am practicing silent blogging
hhaha
no la.... umm quite long i never blog ....
because of
1. game
2.sick
3.after sick dun wan touch computer
4.now only starting to touch computer

well i have a question..
do u think yr teacher/lecturer is a good adviser about yr future?
i would say yes but not all...
because lecturer/teacher is a person that teaches people but does not really know the situation of the outside world...
so if u would ask for a opinion from anyone...pls think twice and made comparison with your thinking...
this is just a reminder to all of my friends...
believe in yourself and make the right decision...
dont worry if it is wrong.. just face it...

Guess Guess it is Putrajaya

hahah
long time already i never blog
sorry ah a little lazy but somehow someone motivated me
ok la this time i went to Purtajaya to have some view on our parents and rakyat money which is used to build it
at lease it serve its purpose by letting me look
but more of it is i entered the government office
haha secret and only me can enter haha
i went to the rural development office and the place was gosh!!!!
one menteri room is like one class room (not including the bathroom , eating room and meeting room that is all in a big room)
haiya i think next time i work with government la...
here is some pic
that is aunt... (going to be Datin)

this is the outer building.....well this is the compound for all the ministers to see only... what a waste of $$
for inside le it is like 8 star hotel

i think 1 floor only for 20 to 50 ppl working
sigh....
i managed to get the pic for the minister room toilet...
well after that i went for a ride all over putrajaya and took some pic
yala that is a mosque for a very little people to pray...

one of the best architecture bridge build in malaysia

well they also plat like Australia...

well thats the Prime minister office
well thats it for now
i got finish off the next post

Technology time????

............. lazy la to post ....some more no pic la........
because my phone kena water and cant repair already
too kau the damages... so i decided to buy iphone(crack ver)
lolz i think should be no problem la
RM2150 and it is expensive.... but nvm la pay deposit already
so umm i might be shifting to sg long as my father is going to buy a condo there
so i will post the ASAP
wait la when i get must lansi to all the college fren
now they say my phone is the most lousy among all of them
see la
....

How to get a girlfriend???!?!?!(to those who dont have GF)

Raymonds theory!!!(although it is not proven)(and i dont have a GF)(and i am planning to get 1 but it will be someone i know)(hehe)

1. Be clean. Teeth must not have stains or food stuff.... rince yr mouth after every meal. who wants to talk to u when yr teeth looks dirty....do that especially after a coffee drink... dont let sweat smell to be smelled.... girls run away when they smell sth like sweat... then make sure yr clothes are clean and been ironed....
2. SHOW YR BREAST !!!!have a good posture while meeting a girl... don be tortoise and it makes ppl like look fitter. hahah
3. choose a theme for yr dressing.. eg.when going to have a dinner at restaurant dont dress like a begger la... dress like formal la but dont over do it.... so depands on the situation and yr girl dressing... dont be like this...you are dressing formal with a coat and yr gf dress a jeans anda t shirt..... she will feel shy and think that u r too high class for her....
4. dont invite yr date to go takei at cyber cafe la... she will feel bored... seeing u play ... sigh.. if who do that he is a assh**e....go to a place where she have interest like shopping or singing or even movie..(next time i will post on how to make yr GF enjoy while yr wallet stays safe)
5. make her laugh.... see her ugly face while laughing and confirm that r u sure that u like her....
more on that is laughter makes ppl happy which can build a good relationship.... normal friends will also like u if u make them laugh... if u cannot make ppl laugh then too bad... but maybe i can save u la... ask me la(next time is also on tips to make ppl laugh)
6. ask stupid question but effective to attract her feelings... eg. u know.... will u always this size?
if she have feeling for u she will ans you and continue the conversation....
7. never be a silencer.... if u dont talk then u want GF for what? GF is some one to talk too la...
shit if u have a gf and dont talk...
8. be yourself... dont act cool or something that is not u... she will feel it very well...
9. be protective... always protect her even like small things...eg if yr girl ask u help her out sth dont mention her name or point her when someone ask u... it makes no differences weather u ask or she ask .eg.at the shop u ask for a drink for yrself and her ...never mention her name that she wants that drink or whatever la.. hope u understand
10. look at her at the eyes and touch her when u have the chance....look at her eyes while talking to her and finish it off with a handshake... the handshake must be firm and a little hard.... to show that u r tough
11. be a gentleman... offer most of the time to her ... even when taking a hp number...
make sure u call her and not she call u...
12. always praise her... eg wow u r not only cute ... u r also fun to talk too...
13. once u get that feeling that she is in love with you ask her your proposal and 90% it will be yes(about the feeling i will explain later)Good luck
i will update soon so catch u later
and is u have any comments plz write at the chat box... THX

i know i know that i never update my blog
but what the hell i can do man/girl.....
nothing interesting going on...
so what am i going to write?????
i woke up from sleep... eat....play....eat .... play ... sleep???
hahah
no la
trying too but i have a good news for u all
if anyone of u have enough money.....!!!!
listen here
there is a FUN FAIR beside Jusco cheras selatan
i went there but havent play yet and no pictures because my phone been socked with water when i went to the water fall....
so just to inform you to have fun and dont stress too much....
the fun fair is on now but hurry ...cause u will never know when it will shift its place
so thats all
i will update if i have the pic when i get back my phone
well heck the cost to repair is RM 285... Damm.....
Anywater proof and shock proof phone? intro la
haha

waterfall in cheras??!?!?!?!?

well hi again
quite fast eh i post a new 1...
so on sat i went for climbing ... i dont even know the place call what but i know the way..
it is near cheras... ummm near my house...
the hill that i was climbing have many station
each station means each stop or check point...
so today i planned to go to the furtherest that is to the waterfall part
well begin my journey up (sorry dont have pic here)
wah!!! like going to faint even at the 1 st check point...
so all the way up till the 3 rd level
ah... from there it is a little easier and go till the waterfall
(sounds like so easy but when u climb u know)(if u interested let me know i can bring u there)
well here is some pic of it...
First view....the water is super cold (maybe i was hot la)
yeah that is my cousin Xen ( u saw him in one of the post before)
yup thats me.... in the chilling water
.......... nth to say(oh... my cousin evil face)
yeah and then we started our way back
we walk and walk and climb and climb and walk and climb and....STOP
then i stopped and saw something moving ... the head is coming out... looks like the snake pattern..... as i look closely it was a ....(if i tell u next post can ah?)(no la i not so bad la )
it was a
TORTOISE ..... wth i nearly died...i thought it was a python....
ahhh okey.... happy i am alive... but it was raining....-_-'
so rush down and reach the car...
nearly fainted... do i look pale? maybe kena tortoise invincible attack...
after that i went home and EAT!!!!
must EAT to make myself aware that i am alive... hahhaha
so thats it...
will try post ASAP....If u all have anything nice or anything going on PLS tell me ok?

election!!!! BN kalah teruk

on the recent general election in malaysia , we realise that Barisan national lose badly (although they are still the government) which they dont have the 2/3 majority.....
without the 2/3 majority , BN cannot pass law without the opposition agreement which we all chinese always wanted for the past 50 years....
so now it is time to cut the crap and talk about me....
well 1 day before election day , there was a talk at taman segar by DAP....
i think the DAP are quite smart because the choose the right time to talk(pasar malam time)
so i and my father wnet to the talk....
we listen and listen and listen and listen and.......... till the rain drop..... (sienz)
so for more excitement when the rain started we use the poster as a umbrella to walk home
so malu let ppl see all the way
well some pic here hahah

so on election day i sent my father to the polling center....
near my garden at S.K Taman Segar....
wow BN and DAP are the main Contestant... look at their booth...
kesian BN... spend so much money but lose badly...
Oi BN Our cheras area is DAP la
DAP so kesian only have 1 umbrella .... but still win
well thats all i can write now..
will try to update my blog as fast as possible
so i hope all of u are healthy and wealthy so u can belanja me makan....hehe

long time no blog!!!

hi long time no write already
lazy and busy... mix feeling
most of it is lazy
well one of my friend is pestering me to update the blog...
well this is him
actually we went to a shop at pj near jalan university to have our dinner( loo me and kkk)
it is a mamak shop but a very expensive 1
we ate some nice food and enjoy it (dosent include price)
the price was rm48 which is not a lot for a 1st timer customer but still i wont recommend if u r on a budget constrain...here is some pic of the food and restaurant
the set rice which include many dishes which i don't eat....
Sotong!!!! very nice ...5 star
well this is the guy frying the food....
and this is the shop name

strange week 20-27 feb 2008 part 3

finally it was over and we went back to grandma house and guess what?!?!?!?!?!?
there is a well...original well from the 80's...
1 st time seeing it and playing it hehe
u know la orang kl ma
haha

there is a video of my uncle teaching how to use it
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V89eTH5bt1U

well normally after a day .. during the night i went for a motor ride and see girls
hahaha with my cousin... don't do it... can be addicted 1...
every night must go out hahaha
then on monday i come back to kl untill now heheh
so till i post the next 1 la
bye

strange week 20-27 feb 2008 part 2

basically it was like normal burning then come the wind and ..................
throwing out the rubbish from the bag
now starting the fire....20% to disaster
now fire started....30% to disaster
there is a video i post it on youtube because i cant post it on the blogger
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yf-W0eTsnY0
then the result
and then bigger... this is where i was helping him to take bottle water and he was hitting the grass with the broom...

and finally the bomba came which i called earlier..
but when they came the fire was already almost dead because me and my uncle already put out about 70% of the fire... the fire was easy to spead and easy to put off... 1 sprinkle of water it is gone... luckly we have a carton of water that we bought earlier this morning.

then when they come the fire was put out completely and the fireman leave... i think they were disappointed... hahah come all the way and time to go ady hahha my uncle use the broom untill it turn black hehe

after the disaster my uncle still want to play with more fire and some more show off that he put out the fire....... still posing to take pic... should ask the fireman to fine him rm 5000
teach him a lesson.